About 10 years ago I read from an article certain lies the enemy puts in our heads about Sex! One of the lies of the devil raised was:

“My marriage won’t be successful if I’m not a sexual superstar on my wedding night”

And here is the sound answer given to such deception! You may be chuckling at this one, but it is a clever lie to make us feel like the wedding night is a trial. People feel compelled to be sexually skilled in order for their mate to love and accept them. They may look at porn or experiment with premarital sex to increase their “skill level.”

The truth is that the less sexually experienced you are going in to your wedding night the better. The less sexual memory baggage you have, the less likely you are to be comparing your spouse with former lovers or porn stars. The wedding night should be the beginning of a wonderful marriage sex life where you and your mate grow in intimacy together.

Of a truth, the best sex occurs when your intimacy level is highest, and it takes time to build intimacy. Each person is wired a little differently, and part of the joy of marriage is getting to know what your spouse enjoys.

Never be shy to discuss your sexual phobia with your spouse! It’s best you grow and learn together than to open yourselves to predators. And if you must get help, seek help from the right sources. There are several professional Christian counseling organizations out there that would be willing to help!

Remain envisioned!

BAID One2One-2015
TOEM 2015